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How Do I Get Hunted By The Headhunter??

Employers Pay More to Relocate Workers

Working Friendships:  Can They Work?

Put on (and Keep) a Happy Face

Get Respect with the Plain Truth

Mentoring Programs: Must-Haves in the War for Talent

Identifying Fatal Character Flaws

Bouncing back from Being Sacked

Managing Your Email

11 Things the Best Bosses Do

Are You the Problem?

Raise the Question

Keeping Good Employees

   

How do I get Hunted by the Headhunter? 

By Stacy Pursell 

If you are not receiving calls from headhunters in your industry, you are more than likely not on their radar screen.  So, how do you get on their radar screen?  First of all, make yourself known.  The more well known you are in your profession, the easier it is for headhunters or professional search consultants to find you.  In order to take advantage of this “premier” method of recruitment, you should keep the following in mind: 

  • Executive search firms can help boost your credibility and market your unique skills.
  • Getting “headhunted” typically means an increase in salary, as well as a boost in prestige from your peers who know you were hand-picked for the position.
  • Executive search firms can help you identify the perfect job, while keeping your job search confidential.
  • They can be an excellent resource for those wanting to change positions now or in the future. 
  • Good firms will not charge the candidate because they are paid by the employer that is hiring.
  • Unlike posting your resume on a job board, potential employers will not get flooded with your resume when you use a professional search consultant. 
  • Professional search consultants have access to positions that are not listed in the want ads or online job boards, and the only way you would know about them is by being headhunted.  

Headhunting is the covert arm of the recruitment world, and much of the work is secretive because companies don’t want to alert their employees or competitors of their intentions. 

It is important that you seek out search firms that specialize in your profession, and begin to form a relationship with the consultants there. Inform the consultant as to whether you are an active job seeker or a passive one.  An active job seeker is someone who is actively seeking another position now, and a passive one is someone who would like to know about relevant opportunities from time to time but would be motivated to leave for a better opportunity.   Register your resume with the leading search firms in your industry, and stay in touch with the consultants there. 

Be honest and clear about your plans and career goals when talking to a headhunter.  Don’t e-mail your resume to many headhunters.  They will prefer to work with you exclusively. One or two firms may be acceptable, but a headhunter will be less likely to work with you if you have sent your resume to many firms.  Headhunters tend to recruit the “cream of the crop,” and the “cream of the crop” professional uses discretion as to whom they will send their resume.  If you have blasted your resume everywhere online, you will not be considered to be in that elite class and will most likely appear desperate. 

Another way to get noticed by professional search consultants is to participate in social networking sites. These sites offer excellent opportunities to build networks of contacts that are relevant to your industry.  Networking is critical to improve your chances of getting headhunted.  Be sure to attend industry events.  You will spot the headhunters because they are the ones doing the most networking.  Hand out your business cards to recruiters, and try to meet with them. 

What should you do when you get a call from a headhunter?  Be polite and professional. If the position or timing is not right for you, offer to help them with their search. Provide them with names or contact information of other qualified professionals. Headhunters remember people who have helped them, and one day this consultant could be the one to deliver your next job to you on a “silver platter.”  If you are unfriendly or unwilling to engage them in conversation, they will be less likely to help you in the future.  In addition, you could be causing damage to your career. When you are contacted by a headhunter, you should send a resume. Having your resume on file will make it more likely that the recruiter will contact you again. 

When working with a headhunter, it is best to follow their lead and advice and allow them to handle the negotiations. Remember, they are skilled professionals and know the search business and the employer better than you do.   Headhunters work on a confidential basis, so it is in your best interest that you keep the information they provide you confidential, as well. 

 

Happy hunting!

 

 
Employers pay more to relocate workers
In what some analysts are calling the worst housing slump since the Great Depression, employers are paying more to get reluctant employees and new hires to sell their homes and relocate for work.

Employees are more reluctant to move because they worry about their ability to sell their homes without taking a loss.

Fourteen percent of employers say they're more willing to pay to relocate new employees from another area to their company's location this year compared with last year, according to a joint survey by CareerBuilder.com and Apartments.com, and conducted by Harris Interactive.

The survey included 2,417 hiring managers and 5,727 employees, and had a sampling error of plus or minus 2 percentage points.

"What's going on in the housing market is causing an increasing reluctance for candidates to consider relocating," says Sally Stetson, co-founder of Salveson Stetson Group, a Philadelphia executive search firm. "Employers are much more willing to extend corporate housing on a month-to-month basis."

When asked how much they'd be willing to spend to relocate an employee, 40% say more than $1,000. One-third is willing to spend more than $2,500, and one in 10 is willing to spend more than $10,000.

What employers are doing:

•Extending temporary housing. Employers are extending temporary housing allowances from two to three months to up to eight months, an indicator of how hard it is today for relocating employees to sell their homes.

•Purchasing employees' homes. Larger companies in some cases will buy the new employee's home as a buyer of last resort. Home Depot (HD), for example, will buy a relocating employee's residence once it's been on the market for 90 days.

In a different approach, some companies offer to subsidize part of a relocating employee's cost of renting a home in a new location.

"Companies know it's a tough time, and they're willing to make it attractive" to relocating employees, says Karen McRae, a vice president at Jenny Pruitt & Associates, an Atlanta real estate firm.

•Letting employees long-distance commute. Some companies will let a new hire or employee who can't relocate work remotely, or let them commute long distances, going to the main office less frequently.

IBM (IBM) has a large virtual workforce, which helps employees in today's market because they can often have the flexibility to work where and when they want. Forty percent of IBM's global population of 355,000 works from a remote location — about 50,000 in the USA, up from 10,000 in 1995.

Employees with families "can hit the ground running if they don't have to relocate," says Dan Pelino, IBM's general manager of global health care and life sciences. "You can find the best talent, independent of where they live."

Five Signs It's Time to Find a New Job

By Suze Orman <http://www.suzeorman.com>

Building a satisfying career requires a commitment to playing offense rather than defense. Take control of your job destiny and make the moves that will put you in a position to actually enjoy your work. Simply waiting for things to work out, or sticking with a bad situation -- playing defense -- is a breach of self-respect.

You deserve to enjoy your job, to feel appreciated and challenged by it, and to be fairly compensated for your work. If that's not how things are playing out at the moment, it's time to take responsibility for your future. Now I'm well aware of how daunting it can be to contemplate changing your job, let alone changing careers. And it can take time. But you can't afford to just suck it up and stay in a job or industry that bores or frustrates you. Professional dissatisfaction is bound to seep into your personal life: You -- and your loved ones -- shouldn't be resigned to having you spend the majority of your time unhappy. Deep inside, you probably already know if you need a new job. But let me provide the final nudge: If any of the following scenarios ring true, it's time to make a change.

1. Friday Is Your Favorite Day: If all you can think of Monday morning is how many hours until Friday, quitting time, you've got a problem. You don't have to love every minute of every working day, nor every colleague all the time, but if your overriding approach to the work week is dread, don't stay where you are.

2. You're Bored: If you still have another 10, 20, or 30 years of work ahead of you, coasting is not an option. What seems "easy" now is actually very dangerous. Rather than growing in your career, you will stagnate. You won't get the promotions -- and raises -- you want, and you won't acquire the skills to keep professionally growing.

3. Stress Is Your Middle Name: Yes, every job comes with stress, but it's up to you to measure the magnitude of what your work takes out of you. If you feel incredible pressure throughout your time at the office, take your work home with you, and then can't sleep because you're wound up so tightly, you need to rethink what you're doing to yourself.

4. You're Under-appreciated (and Overworked): You deserve respect. It's that simple. If you have a boss that doesn't value your work, or your company doesn't treat its employees well, it's probably time to move on. Of course, it always makes sense to try and turn around a bad situation. Talk to your boss about how you can better work together, or look for other opportunities in the company. But please don't play martyr and suffer through a work atmosphere that makes you feel "less than."

5. You Keep Saying, "If I Could Do It All Over, I Would Be a ....": Don't sell out your dreams so fast. If you're constantly thinking about doing something else with your work life, you owe it to yourself to see if you can make a go of it.

However, switching careers can take years of planning, both in terms of scoping out the new work and preparing for the financial changes the switch can entail. The career you start with is not necessarily the one you must end with.

While I'm all for chasing dreams, you're not to use the going-back-to-school excuse to get out of a job you dislike. Going back to school is not a career plan. Scoping out a job or industry that truly interests you, and then researching what it will take to both start and succeed in that field is a career plan. If, after all that research, it's clear that you need to goback to school, then go for it.

Don't Wait Till You Hit Breaking Point

Recognizing you need a new job is the easy part. What's hard -- and often paralyzing for so many -- is how to move forward. Being stuck seems to have  become a career stage. Let's get you moving forward in your career.The most important step is to take responsibility for your future. The idea here is to strategize and plan. Think about where you want to be one year or three years from now. Let your boss know your career goals -- don't assume he or she can read your mind. If your boss isn't interested in your career progress but you like the company, scope out other opportunities at the organization.Looking before you really need to is even more important if you'll be searching among new companies that have no idea who you are. It's going to take time. So please start looking for a job now if you want to make a move within the next six months. It's your job to make your career work for you.

Suze Orman www.suzeorman.com  is the author of five consecutive New York Times bestsellers and has written, co-produced, and hosted five PBS specials based on those books. She is also the most successful single fundraiser in the history of public television. She hosts the award-winning "Suze Orman Show," which airs Saturday nights on CNBC in America, Asia, and India. She is contributing finance editor to "O: The Oprah Magazine," "O at Home," and the "Costco Connection Magazine."

 

Working Friendships: Can They Work?

By Diana Wraight

Your diligent search has paid off! You've been notified of an interesting career opportunity. It's exactly the position you've been hoping to find. It's a move up in the area you've targeted for your next growth experience. There's even more good news: You have a friend working in the department. The only bad news is, you have a friend working in the department.  Which is it? According to Dr. Jan Yager, author of Friendshifts: The Power of Friendship and How It Shapes Our Lives, working with a friend could be either good or bad—or both. Initially, you may have the benefit of knowing the true culture of the organization, along with an evaluation differing from that of the standard company brochure. Think about it. An existing friend at a new job will completely eliminate the awkward "I don't know a soul" phase. You'll have immediate answers to all those pesky "first week of work" questions. You'll have a built-in stress reducer: lunch with a friend. But how will working so closely with a friend affect your career? Just as important, how will it affect your friendship? "Same-level friendships are safest and easiest to maintain," suggests Yager. "By being at the same level, you eliminate the potential problems that may occur if one friend has to supervise, criticize, critique or evaluate the other."

Competitive Edgy

One young woman recalls being urged by a friend to apply for a position within her department only to be called a short time later and asked to cancel the interview. The friend had reconsidered; she was concerned about allowing career competition to enter their relationship. She realized that although they would begin at the same level, eventually one could become manager to the other.

Casual works.

Yager believes casual friends have fewer obstacles to overcome in the workplace. "It is easier to keep a clear business head when the friendship is only a casual one; the stakes in maintaining it are smaller than for a close or best friendship. "The valuable contributions that casual friends make in the workplace include aiding productivity, fostering a greater sense of teamwork,

providing a sounding board and helping workers feel they are part of a corporate family," she explains. Discretion: A final word of wisdom for all work friendships. You've explored the pros and cons of a position that requires you to work with a friend, and you've decided to accept the opportunity/challenge. Yager offers the following advice: "Avoid discussing intimate concerns at work, or revealing confidential information about each other or your family or friends, even in the less-than-private lunchroom or bathroom settings. Not only is it poor business protocol, it could put you or your friend's standing at the firm in jeopardy. Furthermore, it could create ill feeling among peers or other workers who perceive there is favoritism or influence peddling going on." In other words, apply the same common business sense and sensitivity you would to any work environment. Always protect your professionalism, appreciate the opportunity to work with a valued friend, and understand the need to separate work issues from those of friendship.

Diana Wraight began her freelance writing career as a feature writer and columnist for a Midwestern U.S. newsmagazine. In addition to writing for the web, the Purdue University graduate's background includes work in public relations, advertising, community development, and writing and editing projects for a variety of professional and corporate publications. She recently completed her first novel. Article taken from BrilliantPeople website.

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Put on (and Keep) a Happy Face

By Joan Lloyd

Is it just me, or is there more selfish, insensitive and downright mean behavior at work these days? When did we cross the line from honesty to cruelty? When did we evolve from "I'm okay, you're okay," to "I'm okay and who cares about     you?" In some workplaces today, employees don their emotional bulletproof vests to prepare themselves for the psychological battle they will endure that day. Managers can be the worst offenders, since their employees are at a political disadvantage if they want to stand up for themselves. Heavy workloads and more stress are probably the culprit but certainly no excuse. Here's the irony: this is emerging at the same time employers are launching all out recruiting and retention campaigns to keep their best employees

happy and content. In some cases, these minefields of caustic behavior are causing people to walk out the back door faster than they can get them through the lobby .Here are some of the nasty things I'm seeing from managers and co-workers, and what t do about them:

Sarcastic comments.

Sarcasm can be a hoot at work, but when it turns into a veiled barb, it's crossed the line. The attacker can hide behind his words with a thin smile, "I was only kidding. Can't you take a joke?" Meanwhile everyone in the room is squirming. The victim of the sarcasm has been publicly skewered and can only lose: he looks defensive if he's offended and he looks weak if he's the regular punching bag.

Approach: Public counterattacks can backfire and are tricky to pull off. Instead, pull the peer aside after the meeting and say, "Jack, from your comment in the meeting, you seem to have an issue with the way I've handled the Anderson account. I'd like to hear what your concerns are." After his feedback, say, "I appreciate your honesty. In the future, I'd prefer a similar discussion between the two of us, rather than a comment in a meeting." The stealth bomber.

Sometimes everyone in the department knows about Jeff's problem except Jeff. Co-workers gossip about him on their breaks. The manager has had a stream of complaints and ends up commiserating with other employees about Jeff's problems.

Approach: Develop a conflict protocol in your department. The expectation is that anyone who has an issue with someone else is expected to go directly to that person first. When the supervisor receives complaints, he or she should coach the complainer to go and talk with the person first before the manager gets involved. The goal is to encourage everyone to take responsibility for the situation instead of playing high school games.

Condescending comments.

I've heard about comments that could curdle fresh milk. "Do I have to do your job for you?" "Last time I checked, I was the department manager and you were just a secretary."

Approach: Stand up for yourself if you are the victim of blatant disrespect. "If you have a concern I'll be happy to discuss it but not if you use that tone."

Screaming and temper tantrums.

Managers and co-workers who yell and throw things often dismiss the ripple affect it has. Their way of dealing with a frustration is to get it out of their system. Never mind the fact that they have now passed their stress to everyone around them. Sister symptoms are door slamming, sulking and huffing around the office. And if the rage is directed at you, it can be demoralizing and devastating.

Approach: In the middle of the storm, either walk away or tell the person you'll talk with them when they've calmed down. In a calmer moment give some advice. Use this model:

Describe what they are doing. Say how it is affecting them/you. State what you would prefer. ("When you yell and start blaming me, it makes me just shut down and get angry with you, instead of directing my attention to solving the problem. And because I'm worried about your reaction on things, I don't always tell you when a problem is brewing, which makes it worse. I'd prefer it if you would state the problem and wait to hear what I have to say and then let me figure out how to fix it.")  My life is more important than your life.  You see it everywhere. "I'm not going to call in sick. So what if someone

else has to cover for me?" "I have to leave early [again] to do something at my son's school. Sally can finish this project. Sshe's single and doesn't have any family obligations."

Approach: Self-centered people fail to see themselves from other angles. Explain it by putting them in other peoples' shoes. "If you were Sally, how would you feel if you had to stay late without warning each week to cover for a co-worker? Whether it's for a child, elderly parent or just an aerobics class.it's not fair to assume your life is more important than hers."

If everyone practices a little more civility at work, it can reduce the stress for all of us.

Joan Lloyd is a speaker, trainer and consultant for companies of all sizes, from startups to the Fortune 500, as well as trade and professional associations across the US Reach her at (800) 348-1944, info@joanlloyd.com, or www.joanlloyd.com.

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Get Respect with the Plain Truth

By Joan Lloyd

When did we start twirling the truth instead of telling it? "Authentic communication" seems like an oxymoron these days. CEOs want to keep employees calm and content, so they only share the good news. The corporate communications people sanitize the truth in their company newsletters. The public relations department finds ways to put a happy face on any negative story. Let's stop putting lipstick on the bullfrog. If it's the ugly truth, call it what it is.

Candor is in such short supply in corporate America, I actually think it can be used to your competitive advantage. (I think I heard a collective gasp.) You might be thinking, "But if we're honest, won't it cause employees to become concerned, ask too many questions or even leave the company? On the contrary, I think most employees today are hungry for some good old-fashioned honesty. They are sick of the hype, doublespeak, and jargon that says absolutely nothing.

Some examples: A fifty-something manager told me that he has interviewed for the same internal promotion three times. Each time, someone else got the job. "When I asked my director why I didn't get the job, he told me that I was so happy and jovial all the time; the senior-level people think I'm perfectly happy in the job I have. Somebody isn't being entirely truthful here. I'm a big boy; why won't they tell me the truth so I can do something about it?"

Contrary to the apparent conventional wisdom, I think employees respond in a mature way when they are treated as adults. The companies who work hard at authentic communication seem to have more committed employees who don't leave, because they know they can't find this candor in many other places. And when employees are told the truth about their performance in an ongoing, honest, respectful way, there is less finger pointing and a lot more accountability. And when the company experiences some bad financial times, employees are more likely to ask, "How can we help?"

So what are we afraid of? Not being liked? A lawsuit? Poor morale? Any labor lawyer will tell you employees are more likely to sue if they've been fired out of the blue. Any consultant worth his or her fees will tell you the best leaders are respected, in part, because they level with people and tell it like it is.

Here are some common sense solutions for authentic communication at work:

Be honest about how you reached a decision. Walk them through your decision-making process. Don't expect employees to jump on board just because you feel comfortable with a decision. I have been in countless senior management meetings where the members discuss an issue (for hours) from each department's perspective. A consensus is reached once everyone understands all facets of the issue. Then they walk out the door and issue a memo to their employees that sounds like meaningless hype. Is it any wonder their employees are confused or resistant? Respect their intelligence and explain the "why" in enough detail so they can buy in.

Stand in the employees' shoes. Whether you are speaking or writing to employees, keep in mind they have one big question: "How will this affect me?" When a client was faced with phasing out a technology product that was soon going to become obsolete, he knew it meant redeployment, or even layoffs. In a meeting, one of his employees said, "It seems as if the sales have been going down in this product for months now." The president replied, "Yes they have been, and they will probably continue to slide. You're probably wondering, "Am I going to have a job?" He went on to explain how he was going to start cross-training them in other areas where sales were growing. In addition, he was going to rely on natural attrition rather than lay off employees. "I can't guarantee there won't be layoffs, but I will do everything possible to use that as a last resort."

Adopt the mindset that honest feedback is the most caring thing you can do for a person. As long as you look at honest feedback as something that could "hurt feelings" or "make someone mad at me," you will continue to avoid telling your employees the very things that will help them the most. Consider this: If your best friend or child worked for you, would you be honest about something that was hurting him or her? Of course you would. Why? Because you care about these people. You'd say, "I care about your success here, so I want to mention something that I think is getting in your way…"

If you care enough about your employees to speak honestly, adult to adult, they will repay you with honesty and commitment in return.

Joan Lloyd is a speaker, trainer and consultant for companies of all sizes, from startups to the Fortune 500, as well as trade and professional associations across the US Reach her at (800) 348-1944, info@joanlloyd.com, or www.joanlloyd.com.

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Mentoring Programs: Must-Haves in the War for Talent

By Joan Lloyd

Wouldn’t it be great to have a seasoned insider who could help you navigate your company’s corporate culture? Wouldn't you like to have a personal coach who could give you practical advice about how to approach a workplace problem? As companies wrestle with ways to keep the “free agent” workforce satisfied, they are turning to mentor programs for these guardian angels.

Before organizations went retention-crazy, mentor programs were seen as a nice benefit to have; but as organizations began to scramble to find ways to develop their workforce, the idea of mentoring became a must-have in the war for talent.

Mentor programs are more than just encouraging senior executives to take newbies under their wings. As we’ve found when working with our clients, a well-planned mentor program can change your culture for the better, while a poorly designed program can create more problems than it’s worth.

Here are some lessons from companies who have started mentor programs:

Make a strong business case for mentoring. Deloitte & Touche, the accounting, tax and consulting firm, documented the business imperative back in 1993. Half of its new hires were women, and almost all of them had left before they became partner candidates... and they didn’t leave to have children. The CEO and partners decided that if they were to grow the business, they were going to have to change the culture.

The CEO must be the enthusiastic champion. A mentoring program is often viewed as the HR program du jour. Unless there is a strong, credible person at the helm, the initiative will feel like one more add-on to an already full schedule. In addition, if there is a task force, it must be lead by someone from the senior team.

Design a program that fits your culture. At Foley & Lardner, a large national law firm, each new lawyer is assigned two mentors; one who has been with the firm for more than 10 years and another who has worked there for a few years. The seasoned person helps them understand the culture and can make introductions, and the other mentor can help them with making presentations and other work-related advice. These two mentors even attend their mentee’s performance review. While in most hierarchies this level of involvement would not be appropriate, it is perceived as supportive in their flat organizational structure.

Focus on real issues, challenges and specific areas of development. If the program is simply a “feel good” program, there is less likelihood it will be taken seriously. At Johnson Controls, mentees and mentors complete profiles and then are matched by a team of managers and HR staff. The goal is to match the mentee’s specific developmental need with that of a mentor who is skilled in that area.

Provide ongoing training and other resources for both mentees and mentors. Time Warner Cable provides training sessions for mentors in order to understand their role and effectively manage the relationship. They also train mentor-mentee pairs to help them maximize their partnership. Mentees also attend training, to help them make the most of the mentoring experience.

Integrate the mentor program with all other development activities. The program will be more successful if it is connected to succession planning, performance reviews, 360-degree feedback processes, promotions and challenging assignments, job rotations and other activities. In addition, providing all employees with development opportunities will keep the mentor program from being viewed as elitist.

Use a flexible system of accountability. Senior managers should have input into the areas they want to focus on in their departments. For instance, there may be a corporate-wide initiative for mentoring women, but the IT department head may also have a special need in his area to create some mentoring opportunities for his technical professionals.

Spell out the roles and responsibilities for participants. For example, mentors should not get between mentees and their managers or get overly involved in the detail of the mentee’s work. Mentees need to understand that having a mentor doesn’t guarantee that they will get promoted or have unlimited access to their mentor. Johnson Controls uses case studies in mentor training to prevent misunderstandings like these.

Make mentor programs voluntary. Mandating mentor or mentee responsibilities is doomed to failure. The mentor must be enthusiastic and willing or he/she will do more harm than good. Mentees need to be willing to accept responsibility for their own career and be willing to accept the mentors’ help. If someone wants to opt out of the program, they should be able to.

Keep the program flexible. Strike a balance between formal events and informal sessions. The benefits of mentoring are found in the private, one-on-one sessions. Too much bureaucracy will kill it.

Joan Lloyd is a speaker, trainer and consultant for companies of all sizes, from start-ups to the Fortune 500, as well as trade and professional associations across the U.S. Reach her at (800) 348-1944, info@joanlloyd.com, or www.joanlloyd.com.

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Identifying Fatal Character Flaws

By Joan Lloyd

She had everything going for her: ambition, technical genius, a solid employer and a manager who wanted to help further her career. She also had one other thing—a character flaw that would be her undoing. From a distance, she seemed to be doing a slow-motion waltz off the corporate cliff. She was warned. She was coached. In the end, she just didn’t think character counted as much as competence. She was wrong.

We all have our own character flaws. The deciding factor is our willingness to work on them. Here are a few troublesome behaviors that can cause your career to tumble.

Arrogance

Arrogance blocks your hearing and your vision. You stop listening to the people around you and insist that you are always right. You’re so busy admiring your genius in the mirror, you don’t see reality closing in around you. Take the case of the entrepreneur who thought that his online business model was going to make him the next Bill Gates. He was convinced that his idea was brilliant, and it was - for a while. He refused to listen to employees who were trying to give him input about how to improve the product to meet the changing demands of customers. He was taken completely by surprise when a big dot-com moved into his market and squashed his business overnight.

Self-Importance

Take the case of the business owner who acted like a member of royalty. As he was building his business, he worked long hours and kept his hand in every detail. A few years later, he began to have some success. His bank account grew, and he hired employees to help him. His business was named one of the fastest growing in his community. That was the beginning of the end. He assumed a lavish lifestyle; he had memberships at all the right clubs; he associated only with like-minded friends. In the meantime, his industry was changing, but he was too self-absorbed to notice. His executive team was waving a red flag, but he didn’t want to see it. When the company folded, it took hundreds down with it.

In another case, a bright computer technician was so abrupt and impatient with his colleagues that his manager stopped assigning him to projects with high visibility. The technician was so convinced of his own superior intelligence and competence that he barely masked his contempt for the "lesser creatures" around him. His project list got narrower and smaller, until his manager couldn’t justify keeping him at all.

Explosiveness

When you work for a manager with a hair trigger, it makes you cautious and compliant. You withhold bad news. You tiptoe around the truth. Managers who rant and rave usually underestimate the damage they’re causing to themselves and to others. They become cut off from looming problems and are often surprised when bad things happen. These are the same managers who complain that their employees are a "bunch of sheep who can’t make decisions," and, as a result, their businesses often reach a plateau and fail to thrive.

Lack of Integrity

This one usually takes a while to show up, but eventually it will. People who lack integrity always seem to manipulate a situation to benefit their own interests. They twist the truth, undermine others to make themselves look good, and bend the rules for their own gain. Take the case of the consultant who charged different fees, depending on the depth of the pockets of his clients. He used other consultants’ research and put his name on it, and he then had the audacity to badmouth the consultants from whom he stole. In the end, the word got around and the consultant had to pack up his tent and move on.

Lack of Accountability

People who don’t accept accountability are head-nodders. They smile and sometime even write things down as if they were actually going to take action, but they seldom follow through. People around them get worn down with all the energy it takes to remind them, to nag, and finally to demand that decisions get made. These are the well-intentioned members of the task force who don’t do their part and the sales staff that doesn’t call back the customer when there is a problem. They are maddening. Their inaction eventually does them in.

What is your fatal character flaw? If you don't think you've got one, you might want to revisit this article. Then ask yourself what you’re doing about it.

Joan Lloyd is a speaker, trainer and consultant for companies of all sizes, from start-ups to the Fortune 500, as well as trade and professional associations across the U.S. Reach her at (800) 348-1944, info@joanlloyd.com, or www.joanlloyd.com.

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Bouncing back from Being Sacked

By Joan Lloyd

"I didn't get out of bed for days," a colleague confided. "I couldn't believe that I had been fired. It was so humiliating, and it made me so angry." When you lose your job, it knocks the air right out of you. No matter if it was your fault or simply a business restructuring, it still packs the same punch.

In spite of the booming U.S. economy during the 1990s, there were actually more people laid off in each of the two final years of that decade than in all the previous years. Why? Because companies are constantly being forced to change how they do business, and that often means there will be casualties.

Those were the boom years. Now that the economy has slowed, the body count is likely to rise even higher. No one wants to think it could happen to him or her, but why not be ready in case the axe does fall? Here are some tips to prepare yourself:

Think twice before you counterattack. You've already lost this war, so opening fire with a personal attack could sour any severance offer the company was willing to make. However, if you feel the termination is unjust or the company bares some responsibility for the situation, I encourage you to state your case and then ask for severance pay, health-care benefits, outplacement services, earned commissions or other perks you can negotiate. In exchange, you will probably be expected to sign an agreement stating that you will not sue the company in the future.

Negotiate the terms of your separation if you can. For example, it may be to your advantage to say you "resigned" or that the termination "was mutually agreed upon." You'll also want to negotiate (and get in writing) the kind of reference your former employer will give. Even after you've walked out the door, it isn't too late to negotiate for this. Most employers don't want to ruin your life (honest). They're usually willing to bend on this one.

Spend some time feeling sorry for yourself. Mourn your old identity. Go through the stages of loss: anger, denial, depression. But do it in the privacy of your own home. Job interviews are no place for emotional venting about the past, so get it out of your system. If you seem bitter or defensive, even your closest friends won't want to risk introducing you to their contacts. You won't be able to move forward until you've reached a level of acceptance.

Script a response to the question. When someone asks, "Why did you leave your job?" be ready with a positive spin. "The company eliminated some duplicate jobs after the merger, and my job was cut." "The company reorganized, and our division was downsized." "The job didn't turn out the way I expected. I tried to make it work, but in the end it just wasn't a good fit with my skills."

Go public with your job search. If you are feeling embarrassed about being fired, forget it. In fact, employers don't even blink when they find out someone was fired or laid off, especially if you have a good attitude. With so many dot-coms going belly up and the big "brick and mortars" downsizing, fired employees don't have the stigma they once did. However, be prepared for some probing questions designed to make sure you aren't the problem.

Actively expand your network. If you've been active in professional organizations and community groups, you may finally get some payback. Phone your colleagues to let them know you're looking for another position. Keep the conversation focused on what you're seeking—not what you just left. Plan on buying more breakfasts and lunches than you ever have in your life. Ask your colleagues to critique your resume, and get their advice on job-search strategies. Most important, ask them to give you more names of, and introductions to, their colleagues.

Getting fired isn't the end of your life, even though it may feel that way at first. It usually is the beginning of a better life, if you're willing to go look for it.

Joan Lloyd is a speaker, trainer and consultant for companies of all sizes, from start-ups to the Fortune 500, as well as trade and professional associations across the U.S. Reach her at (800) 348-1944, info@joanlloyd.com, or www.joanlloyd.com.

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Managing Your Email

By Joan Lloyd

In an average work day, how much time do you spend reading and sending email

messages?

a. 10 minutes

b. 20 minutes

c. 2 hours

d. None

If you said 2 hours, you're in good company. Research sponsored by Accountemps, a staffing company, recently asked 150 executives from 1,000 large companies the same question. The mean response was 108 minutes; almost two hours at a keyboard—from a group that probably hadn't typed its own memos before 1994! Indeed, saying that email has changed the way we communicate is like saying Bill Gates has made a buck or two. Of course the beauty of email is that it is quick and easy. You can communicate without having to pick up a phone. Let's admit it: Sometimes we don't want to talk to Aunt Marlene or that jerk in purchasing. It's a great way to say what you want, when you want, without worrying about time zones and phone bills. But email can be a beast, too. For example, it's changing expectations about turnaround time. The pace of business is faster than ever, with people expecting a quick response to their requests. Vacation is no longer sacred: "What do you mean you don't retrieve your email messages on your vacation?" The workday is longer than ever. If you don't answer email messages during the day, you have to keep up by answering them at night. Whether you think email is the greatest gift of the modern age or an e-curse from the devil, here are some tips that will help you manage your electronic mailbox: Don't glut other people's electronic mailbox with junk. Jokes, cartoons or long missives about an epiphany you had on your vacation are just a nuisance. They fall into the same category as those cheesy offers for things we don't want. Don't forward or copy your email messages to a cast of thousands. It's the equivalent of the old "CYA" and it's annoying. Think about whom might actually be interested or affected by the information before you hit "send." Beware the penmanship police. Just because it's easy to send an email message, it doesn't mean you can afford to be casual or sloppy in your  work-related messages. Recently, I received a request for information from a complete stranger. It was typed without a single capital letter. It didn't look professional, and I didn't take it seriously. Sarcasm and humor are tricky enough when you're communicating face-to-face. It's riskier when you're at the keyboard. Take care to be straightforward, and take the time to reread your message for any potential tone land mines.

Don't send anything you wouldn't want your boss or coworkers to read.  Imagine your embarrassment when someone copies that catty little note you sent and it winds up on the wrong person's desk or forwarded to the HR department. Remember that most companies have policies that tell employees they have the right to go through all email messages if they suspect any illegal or unethical misuse of the system. If your message is too complicated to spell out through email, it should be done on the phone or face to face. Don't hide behind your computer if you have a sensitive message to deliver. Nothing is worse than receiving a reprimand on your computer screen. Get up and go see the person, or pick up the phone. Email should never be the cowardly way out of a personal conversation about a performance problem or serious workplace issue. Email doesn't replace the letter any more than VCRs replaced the movies.  There is still a time when a letter is better. For example, a thank-you letter carries more weight and meaning when you've taken the time to put it on paper. Balance impersonal email with personal lunch meetings or networking meetings. It can be so seductive to communicate electronically, we forget to pick up the phone and say, "Tell me what's new. How are you really doing?" Beware the addiction of email. Do you check your email compulsively every hour? Do you get angry when you don't have any new messages? Are you avoiding your job because it's more rewarding to have a virtual life? It can  be a black hole of wasted time. Instead, pick up messages several times a day.

Joan Lloyd is a speaker, trainer and consultant for companies of all sizes, from start-ups to the Fortune 500, as well as trade and professional associations across the U.S. Reach her at (800) 348-1944, info@joanlloyd.com, or www.joanlloyd.com.

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11 Things the Best Bosses Do

By Joan Lloyd

Why do you stay at your current job? Is it the 401K match? The comprehensive health insurance? The casual Fridays? Yeah, right. Chances are that your relationship with your manager is a key factor in your decision to stay. After all, your manager is the umbilical cord that connects you to the organization—and through that connection comes a lot of the challenge, the recognition and the career growth that give meaning to your work.

When your connection to your manager is damaged or severed, it’s likely that you will move on to something better. In fact, for organizations, employee turnover is a red flag that signifies the manager may need to change his or her behavior. For instance, there is the office manager who threw a telephone and just missed the head of an employee (the employee quit), or the manager who used profanity and insults as ways of "communicating" with his employee (she quit, too). And that was just some of the mail I received last week.

So, when you have a really good boss, you’ve got a positive relationship that shouldn’t be taken for granted. Why not take a moment to thank your manager for the positive things he or she does for you?

Here’s what the best bosses do:

They make a personal investment in your success. They take the time to find out what you want out of your job, and then they do what they can to help you achieve it. If you want to move up, they make sure you get opportunities to expand your skills and visibility. If you want to stay where you are, they help you keep your job interesting.

They believe in you—sometimes more than you believe in yourself. They push you to try new things and encourage you to grow beyond what you think your capabilities are. Sometimes you feel stretched beyond your abilities, only to look back in amazement at what you’ve accomplished.

They believe in tough love. They won’t let you off the hook. Sometimes they tell you things you don’t want to hear and hold you accountable for things you don’t want to do. But you know they have your best interests at heart.

They encourage and reinforce you when you do well. Because their standards are high, you revel in their praise. You find you work harder for them than for anyone else because they make you proud of yourself.

They use mistakes as tools. They are good observers and can zero in on a mistake, dissect it and help you figure out how to solve it. They are good teachers who use mistakes as a new challenge for you to conquer.

They give you enough face time. They stop by and say hello. They stop what they’re doing and listen when you interrupt them with a question. They make themselves available, in spite of a busy day. When you’re speaking, they make you feel like an important person who has something important to say.

They are demanding about the quality and quantity of your work, but they also respect your need for quality of life. They don’t lose sight of the organization’s need for results, but they are sensitive to your personal and family commitments. They keep your job demanding, but not based on sheer endurance. They are flexible about your schedule, as long as your work is solid.

They help you set priorities and parameters. They are good at channeling your energy toward the most relevant work for you and the organization. Sure, "everything’s important," but they know your time and your energy are finite resources. They are careful not to burn you out.

They are your political champions. They are quick to spot bureaucratic busywork and political quagmires, and they do their best to buffer you from some of the ugly realities so you’re free to perform at your best.

They give you freedom to do the job and to make decisions. They describe the results they want without telling you exactly how to do it. They know the satisfaction and challenge lies in the process you figure out for yourself.

They involve you in decision making. They know that the more you are involved the more committed—and educated—you will be. They are smart enough to know what they don’t know, and they rely on your input to help them make informed decisions.

Being a boss today is a demanding, sometimes thankless job. Why not let your manager know you appreciate his or her work... unless, of course, s/he’s recently thrown a phone at you.

Joan Lloyd is a speaker, trainer and consultant for companies of all sizes, from start-ups to the Fortune 500, as well as trade and professional associations across the U.S. Reach her at (800) 348-1944, info@joanlloyd.com, or www.joanlloyd.com.

       
  Are You the Problem?

By Joan Lloyd

"Why does this keep happening to me?" may be the toughest career question you ever ask yourself.

Take the case of the company president who can't understand why his senior-level managers don't take initiative. "They wait for me to bring up issues and make decisions about what should be done. They're like a bunch of sheep. The same thing happens all the time. Doesn't anyone have a backbone anymore?"

This scenario has happened to him before. If he asked, "Why does this keep happening to me?" he might realize that the pattern leads directly back to him. If people had the guts to level with him, they would tell him that his temper tantrums, his sarcastic comments and his public attacks have blunted his staff's desire to step forward with a new idea or an independent decision. They have learned to be "yes men" and to keep their heads low and their mouths shut.

Or, take the case of the computer technician who can't seem to hold a job. "My last boss was a political jerk; all he cared about was himself. My boss before that laid me off to put his friend in the job. In the job before that, they reorganized the department and laid me off, even though we had plenty of work. I just don't think my manager liked me." Get the picture? He won't ask himself the question. The answer is that it keeps happening to him because he's a pain in the neck to work with. He alienates clients and coworkers alike with his arrogant, know-it-all style.

In another case, an office worker has decided that the five places she worked in the last eight years were filled with "political backstabbers" and people who were all out to get her. "I don't know if they are all jealous of me because I have a college degree or because I'm younger and more attractive than the rest of them. It's the same old story. They seem nice at first, and then a few months later they start ignoring me or talking about me behind my back." You've got this one figured out, haven't you? She will never ask the introspective question because she's too self-absorbed and conceited to imagine their response could be caused by her own behavior.

It's true that sometimes a rash of bad things will happen to good people. People will lose their jobs through no fault of their own. Sometimes coworkers will be immature or political; and most of us have been stung by a lousy boss. But when a pattern starts to develop, it's time to stop and take stock.

What about you? What keeps happening to you, and what can you learn about yourself before it's too late? Here are some tips to help you peer into that deep, dark, scary place:

  • When you look over past performance reviews, what patterns do you see? For instance, if you keep hearing, "Needs to be more open to other's opinions and ideas," or "Needs to work on listening skills," what is really being said? (Maybe it's a nice way of saying, "You think you know everything, and people don't want to work with you. I'll never promote you as a result or put you on any high visibility projects.") If the same comments turn up time and time again, you need to find out how your own behavior is hurting you and what you need to do to correct it.
  • Do you hear the same feedback from your spouse and children that you hear at work? A workaholic manager told me that his wife constantly complained that he loved his work more than he loved his family. His employees often complained that he was inaccessible and unresponsive to their issues. If you hear the same song at work and at home, it's time to listen... before it's too late.
  • Do you get teased about a behavior you have? Do you hear "funny," sarcastic comments from others about something you do? Sometimes they're not intended to be funny. ("Hey, what do you know! Charlie actually showed up on time for work today!") If people don't know how to approach you, they might try to tell you with humor. If these jokes have a recurrent theme and you're not listening closely, you won't hear the real message.

More careers get derailed because of personal traits and inappropriate behavior than because of technical incompetence. If you've ever said, "What does this keep happening to me?" it's time to answer the question.

Joan Lloyd is a speaker, trainer and consultant for companies of all sizes, from start-ups to the Fortune 500, as well as trade and professional associations across the U.S. Reach her at (800) 348-1944, info@joanlloyd.com, or www.joanlloyd.com.

   
       
  Raise the Question

By Diana Wraight

Are you working within a corporate or small-company structure that observes a strict "don't even think about it" policy when it comes to asking for a salary increase? If you dare to investigate, is the reply unequivocally "Wait until your annual review"? If you're in sales, the answer may be just three words: "Fine. Sell more."

End of story?

No, according to Michael O'Malley, author of Are You Paid What You're Worth? The Complete Guide to Negotiating the Salary, Benefits, Bonus and Raise You Deserve. O'Malley suggests that you begin by comparing yourself with your colleagues and realistically evaluating your worth to the company. This will help you determine if you are indeed undercompensated and, if you are, why.

For example, it may be that the new hires in your department, now learning the job that you have been successfully performing, started at a salary that exceeds yours. O'Malley suggests that you can turn the situation to your advantage if "the pay differential is noticeable" and if "it seems to be a recurring problem [that] the position appears to be impossible to fill except at greater pay than your own."

As long as your work history validates your worth as a productive and contributing member of your department, it is fair to voice a concern with your manager about your salary compared to that of the "newcomers," according to O'Malley.

Be prepared.

Once you have determined that you are worth more to your company than you are making, you need to organize your thoughts and be prepared to demonstrate why you deserve (as opposed to need) a compensation increase. For instance: How, exactly, have you contributed at a level exceeding that your compensation dictates? Have you implemented creative ideas or assumed leadership roles that enhanced the bottom line for the organization? Avoid the temptation to demand; let your economic value speak for itself.

Perhaps you have already researched potential projects or investigated business designs that will guarantee, even increase, your future contributions to the company. If your research is solid and you are confident about your projections, you may want to share your foresight during the "raise" discussion. According to O'Malley, "The best employees play to their strengths."

Never underestimate the value of timing.

Would you approach your boss about a raise as the company struggled to make payroll? Of course not. Notice other good time/bad time indicators. Are the vibes from the boss's office conveying "busy but optimistic" or "negative and overwhelmed?" Are the results of your superior work apparent, or are they buried under new complications? Be patient in selecting an appropriate time to have your important discussion. You're worth the raise; the raise is worth the wait.

Diana Wraight began her freelance writing career as a feature writer and columnist for a Midwestern U.S. newsmagazine. In addition to writing for the web, the Purdue University graduate's background includes work in public relations, advertising, community development, and writing and editing projects for a variety of professional and corporate publications. She recently completed her first novel

   
 

 

AFTER You Get the Job

Creating a Good Impression at Your New Job

 

Congratulations! You've just been appointed to your new job.

Now the real work begins.

It is important from the beginning to convince your new employers that, in

selecting you, they have made the right choice.

* Demonstrate that you are highly-motivated and eager to get started.

* Discuss your duties and responsibilities; and establish your priorities.

Set challenging, but achievable, short-term and long-term goals.

* To enable you to fit in quickly, find out as much you can about your

company and its organisational structure.

* Identify the most successful and highly valued people in the firm and

analyse the reasons for their success. Use them as your role models.

Associate with colleagues who are perceived as ideal employees.

* Prepare carefully for meetings with your boss. Try to anticipate questions

and be ready with positive and considered responses. Make sure you are

always well-informed. Keep up to date on current issues.

* Learn all you can about problem-solving techniques.

When you are given a problem to solve, tackle it enthusiastically and

systematically.

* Establish a reputation as a good team player by developing good working

relationships and cultivating friendships with as wide a range of people in

the company as possible.

* Participate fully in your company's training programme;

and avail of all opportunities to extend your knowledge

and develop work-related skills.

* Learn from your own mistakes and the mistakes of others.

* Do more than is specified in your contract. Volunteer for assignments that

will help raise your profile within the company.

* Complete all work on time. Don't make promises unless you are sure you can

deliver.

* Develop a reputation for honesty, loyalty and integrity.

* Since your job description will form the basis of your performance

appraisal, it is important to review it regularly.

>From 'Four Minutes to Job Interview Success'

published by Assignments Plus Business Publications

 

 

   
 

 

Keeping Good Employees

By Joan Lloyd

Are you trying to hang on to your best employees? Who isn't? It's so difficult to find new employees that smart companies are doing everything they can to keep the ones they have. Many companies use exit interviews to query departing employees in the hopes of discovering where they went wrong. The answers are usually predictable: "I'm leaving for more opportunity"; "They're offering me more money." In fact, we all know that exit interviews aren't always reliable. People don't want to leave a burning bridge behind them. A 1999 survey in The Wall Street Journal confirms what I have believed all along. The top reasons people leave their jobs: Disrespect for the individual; feeling that the individual's contributions are not valued. Stagnation; lack of growth and challenge in the job. Poor communication. Unclear expectations; little or no feedback on performance.

Little or no involvement or participation in decision-making. Over the next 10 years, the statistics don't look good. The labor shortage is likely to get worse, and it will loom even larger as the problem du jour. Here are just a few ideas from a tips booklet I've just published, 125 Tips for Retaining Talented Employees:

Recognize and Value Employees

Treat interns like gold. Give them meaty assignments, not just back-room copying duties. Assign a "buddy" to answer their questions, and make them feel at home. Send them a care package during the school year, so they'll want to return the following summer. Conduct interviews with new employees, 60 days after they are on the job. Find out if the job has been what they'd expected. Step in and make

adjustments, if necessary. Pay more than market value. Offer flexible benefits that each employee can customize. Give managers a pot of money to use for recognizing employees' efforts. For example: a dinner for two; theater tickets; an on-the-spot bonus; or a group pizza party.

Challenge your Employees

At least once a year, ask each employee, "What percentage of your job is routine? What new things would you like to learn?" Give each employee at least one "stretch project" each year. Host a monthly "Lunch-and-Learn." Bring in outside speakers, ask a company executive to speak, conduct a mini-training session, or discuss a good business book, chapter by chapter. Ask all employees who attend a conference to return to share what they've learned with everyone else.

Open, Honest Communication

Convene all-company meetings at least twice a year. Share the good news, along with the bad. Break into smaller workgroups to discuss how the information affects each area. Insist that managers meet regularly with their employees to discuss ways to approach current issues and problems. Do a 360-degree feedback process for each manager. Collect feedback from peers, employees and bosses, and help each manager develop a personal improvement plan.

Set Clear Expectations, and Provide Ongoing Feedback

Involve managers in their new employee's orientation. Give them a sample discussion outline that they can use to clarify expectations during the first week. Expect managers to meet with new employees weekly. Once a year, managers and employees fill out a form that asks each of them three questions: What can your manager/employee do more of? What can your manager/employee do less of? What should your manager/employee keep the same? They meet to discuss their answers. Expect each manager to have a thorough, annual performance discussion with each employee.

Make Employees Feel Like Owners

Give employees flexible hours. Outline the parameters that must be met, and let them figure out a schedule that will work. Create employee-run committees. Some examples are a Fun Committee, a Quality Committee, and a Recognition Committee. Involved employees stay put. Give employees some spending authority over some part of their job; give them a budget over which they have control.

Joan Lloyd is a speaker, trainer and consultant for companies of all sizes, from start-ups to the Fortune 500, as well as trade and professional associations across the U.S. Reach her at (800) 348-1944, info@joanlloyd.com, or www.joanlloyd.com.

   

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